If you've never had a reading before or had one but are less than satisfied, here are some ideas to help you understand how the process works and what your part is in it.
For psychic readings Some people work with Tarot cards, a piece of jewellery or even holding the hand of the person they are reading for. These are all accepted methods of psychic work.
A psychic reading involves the reader hooking into the sitter’s energy and vibes. If the sitter is holding back, the reader may have some difficulty in getting the information. You can help the reader by having an open mind and attitude towards them.
Tarot cards or objects from the sitter can help the reader to tap into the energy visually.
It takes a little while sometimes to get into the energies. You can help the reader by acknowledging the information that is correct and advising when the information is off the mark and not relating to you.
Please note that psychics are not all knowing. It is easy to get into the mindset that we need a third person to validate our decisions and tell us that what we are doing is OK.
Psychic readings are there for you to make informed decision, not for the psychic to make your decisions for you. You have the power to take your life in a direction that you feel is the best for you.
For Medium readings
It always helps to think of the person you wish to contact from the other side. Although sometimes Spirit have other ideas and someone else may come through, don’t be disheartened, they may be helping your loved one out just to get started. It may also be a case of whose energy is stronger on the other side. Some spirits can dominate a reading until they have their say. It is up to the medium to move those along, so others can get a forum as well.
Sometimes sitters can be so fixated on a specific issue or person that it will make it difficult to acknowledge any other information that may come through. Please keep an open mind.
Spirit don’t always give us the information that we want to hear, rather the information that we need to hear. Don’t shoot the messenger, in this case the medium, if you don’t hear what you want to hear.
For some spirits the first time contact may be a little difficult. As we need to raise our vibration to be able to communicate with them, they need to lower their vibration to do the same. It takes practice for us to achieve that state, they are no different.
Remember, the medium is there to help you connect with your loved ones, the psychic is there to also give you valuable information. They are not there to prove their skills to you. You may disregard their messages or you may choose to walk out the door and armed with the knowledge and wisdom of the reading make the most of it. It is your choice.
I am a lady who wears many hats: wife, mother, author, healer, witch, poet, editor, psychic medium and the list goes on. Through this blog I am living true to my Spirit. What you read here you may not agree with, it may not be politically correct, but it comes from the heart and you can be sure that it's absolutely, uncompromisingly and purely me.